Things to Do on a First Date

If you’re like most guys, you probably have some place that you like to take girls to. Maybe it’s the movies, maybe you insist on taking her out to a nice dinner so she realizes how much you like her. Who knows?

Well, the aim of this newsletter is to get you thinking about some other dates you can go on.

For starters, let’s look at first dates. This can be critical, because this date is all about getting to know each other and ramping up that attraction. If you’ve paid attention to my eCourse, then ramping up the attraction should be no problem for all you high status guys. So you just have to worry about going somewhere where you can build rapport.

I hope you can see why going to the movies is a bad idea for a first date. Sure, if you’re nervous, it’ll make the time go by easy enough. But that’s not what the date is all about.

And while you may get a chance to get to know each other over dinner, I don’t recommend it for a first date. This is because offering to pay for a woman’s dinner in order for her to see you is like saying “Hey, I know you’re cooler than me, but if I pay for your dinner, then that should sorta even things out”. This is not to say you should never take a woman to dinner, just give it time.

So, onto the places that are fun. A nice easy place for a first date is a café or coffee shop. It’s casual, there’s plenty around and since it’s cheap, who buys isn’t really an issue. It’s fine to buy her coffee as long as you don’t make an issue of it.

Another place I like, that works especially well with fun, outgoing girls, is a video arcade. This works great, because it’s fun and it makes it easy for you to tease her when you kick her ass at a game.

Something else I like to do at the arcade is challenge her to a game of something I’m good at that we can both play together. Air hockey and Daytona work well. I then mention that the loser must pay for ice cream/drink/etc afterwards. I then proceed to kick her ass and get her to pay for whatever. Try it.

Later dates are easier, because by then you have already developed some rapport. I’ll share with you one tactic I got from a guy named Brett who appeared on a DYD program.

Invite the girl over to watch a DVD with you. Share something to eat and drink and just have a chat. Then suggest you watch the DVD. But Oh no, the DVD player in the living room is broken, looks like we’ll have to use the one in my bedroom….

I’m sure you can figure out what to do after that. ;)